Dianara's Reflections...

Ever wondered why some kids can be so loud and rude to their elders?...You don't have to look far actually. It can come from your own backyard!...hahaha...yup, and it's such a disturbing sight too. Children, well most of them, emulate the adults within their scope of sight and relations. When they see or hear adults talking, cursing or shouting to each other, unconsciously, the scene embeds itself in their minds. This will later be 'vomitted' from their innocence as something that is not wrong, ok to do and nothing unusual. But it's a shame to see them emulating all the negativities they inherit from the adults....and we the adults are to blame for polluting their minds. Shame on us too! There's a family I know of where a grandson of about 4 yrs old seems to find it ok to shout at his grandparents! Horror of horrors!!!...If I were given the chance, I would smack him silly. But then, you can't blame him either cause he sees his dad doing it, his grandfather d

Break-ups. I see this as something that some people go through at least once in their adult lives. The end of a relationship does mean it's the end of the world. No way! It's just that they were not meant to be. Why? This is due to so many reasons and differs with each and every couple. If a relationship cannot be salvaged anymore and the best solution is to part ways, then so be it. Don't hold on to something that was never there in the first place. Though the relationship has been forged for years and years, if it's fated to end along the way, accept it with grace and see that as a blessing. You may have unwittingly got yourself into a situation that you could not get out of easily and the break -up sort of did you a favor. Who knows eh? Marriages can end and it's not unusual for married couples to go through divorces. Due to what reason or other, just accept that it was to last that certain length of time only. For the couples involved, move on and start a new l