LET IT BE...LIFE MUST GO ON.
Break-ups. I see this as something that some people go through at least once in their adult lives. The end of a relationship does mean it's the end of the world. No way! It's just that they were not meant to be. Why? This is due to so many reasons and differs with each and every couple.
If a relationship cannot be salvaged anymore and the best solution is to part ways, then so be it. Don't hold on to something that was never there in the first place. Though the relationship has been forged for years and years, if it's fated to end along the way, accept it with grace and see that as a blessing. You may have unwittingly got yourself into a situation that you could not get out of easily and the break -up sort of did you a favor. Who knows eh?
Marriages can end and it's not unusual for married couples to go through divorces. Due to what reason or other, just accept that it was to last that certain length of time only. For the couples involved, move on and start a new life. Life should not end because YOU think it should but only when the TIME comes.
What I'd really like to touch on here is of some people who somehow or other, can't stand to see their exes being happy in their new lives. They feel that they should still be with their exes. Some even go to the extent of wishing that if they can't get their exes, then nobody else can. Hey! What sort of reasoning is this? Have you ever asked yourself why your relationship only lasted for that period of time? Have you ever wondered it might be the fault of either one and it was best just to leave the relationship?
Let sleeping dog's lie as the popular English saying goes. Don't dwell upon how things could have been. Let it be! You just have to move on and make a new life for yourself. Don't make it difficult for your ex and his/her new life. Do not hold grudges if the breakup was mutual. Even if it wasn't, console yourself that it may have been a blessing and that there are many new things waiting to be discovered with someone new. Try to remain friends with your ex if you can. Maintain a friendship that you can be proud of and a friendship that can be called upon to aid you in your times of need. You may never know right, that one day, you might need your ex'es help...think about it.
Don't let bad feelings, envy, hatred or even revenge rule your life. It will get you nowhere but an express trip to Hell! Do not even think of wanting to make other's lives miserable just because yours has. Be happy instead for your ex. And in some cases, maybe it was in your favor that the relationship ended and you should thank your lucky stars it did.
So people,(especially the sour grape ones) before you even think of trying to hurt someone else, look at yourself and into yourself first. Do a lot of soul searching. Just because you think it's your right to still be with your ex, no matter what, do not make a fool of yourself and make your ex hate you more.
Let go of the past. The past is dead and gone and should not be resurrected. Only remember the good and happy times which I'm sure there was. Look to the present and the future. It's a vast world out there filled with lots of opportunities and good things. You only have to seek and it shall be found. Let peace and calm nest in your heart for that will make you a better person. Your soulmate is out there somewhere and only time will tell.
Live happy, be happy and stay happy for it shows on your face. It'll keep you younger, make you look younger and helps you to stay younger for a long time to come. When you have good thoughts and think of good deeds, you will be rewarded accordingly. Don't forget, God knows and He remembers you if you remember Him. Pray to Him for guidance, strength, hope and love. God willing, your prayers will be answered.
So remember this:LET IT BE... LIFE MUST GO ON.
If a relationship cannot be salvaged anymore and the best solution is to part ways, then so be it. Don't hold on to something that was never there in the first place. Though the relationship has been forged for years and years, if it's fated to end along the way, accept it with grace and see that as a blessing. You may have unwittingly got yourself into a situation that you could not get out of easily and the break -up sort of did you a favor. Who knows eh?
Marriages can end and it's not unusual for married couples to go through divorces. Due to what reason or other, just accept that it was to last that certain length of time only. For the couples involved, move on and start a new life. Life should not end because YOU think it should but only when the TIME comes.
What I'd really like to touch on here is of some people who somehow or other, can't stand to see their exes being happy in their new lives. They feel that they should still be with their exes. Some even go to the extent of wishing that if they can't get their exes, then nobody else can. Hey! What sort of reasoning is this? Have you ever asked yourself why your relationship only lasted for that period of time? Have you ever wondered it might be the fault of either one and it was best just to leave the relationship?
Let sleeping dog's lie as the popular English saying goes. Don't dwell upon how things could have been. Let it be! You just have to move on and make a new life for yourself. Don't make it difficult for your ex and his/her new life. Do not hold grudges if the breakup was mutual. Even if it wasn't, console yourself that it may have been a blessing and that there are many new things waiting to be discovered with someone new. Try to remain friends with your ex if you can. Maintain a friendship that you can be proud of and a friendship that can be called upon to aid you in your times of need. You may never know right, that one day, you might need your ex'es help...think about it.
Don't let bad feelings, envy, hatred or even revenge rule your life. It will get you nowhere but an express trip to Hell! Do not even think of wanting to make other's lives miserable just because yours has. Be happy instead for your ex. And in some cases, maybe it was in your favor that the relationship ended and you should thank your lucky stars it did.
So people,(especially the sour grape ones) before you even think of trying to hurt someone else, look at yourself and into yourself first. Do a lot of soul searching. Just because you think it's your right to still be with your ex, no matter what, do not make a fool of yourself and make your ex hate you more.
Let go of the past. The past is dead and gone and should not be resurrected. Only remember the good and happy times which I'm sure there was. Look to the present and the future. It's a vast world out there filled with lots of opportunities and good things. You only have to seek and it shall be found. Let peace and calm nest in your heart for that will make you a better person. Your soulmate is out there somewhere and only time will tell.
Live happy, be happy and stay happy for it shows on your face. It'll keep you younger, make you look younger and helps you to stay younger for a long time to come. When you have good thoughts and think of good deeds, you will be rewarded accordingly. Don't forget, God knows and He remembers you if you remember Him. Pray to Him for guidance, strength, hope and love. God willing, your prayers will be answered.
So remember this:LET IT BE... LIFE MUST GO ON.
life is all about choices and heartache will heal in time. we can run by keeping busy. so yes, very true, LET IT BE...LIFE MUST GO ON, only a little bit different..we'll get used to it.
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